Relationships and Marriage Counseling in San Diego: 

Things are good overall but you can’t help to think you’re having a really rough time in your relationship. A lot of things have been going on lately. You feel this thing that is lingering, doubt, telling me ‘I can only fake it for so long before it all comes crashing down.’ You’re bottling up feelings which are beginning to the surface. You wipe a tear away. 

You look like the perfect couple

From the outside, to everyone else, you are the perfect couple and honestly there are some days you feel like the prefect couple. If they only knew when things finally come to the surface, the discussions, the fights, the frustration, you find yourself in unresolved conflicts, or fighting over the same thing over and over. It's so unfair you think. 

Your relationship is far from perfect

At times, it gets really bad, those are the times you consider leaving. It feels like lately you feel more and more disconnected, even contemplating if you would be better off separating from this person who doesn’t hear you, ignores, zones out, or thinks you’re just complaining and too controlling, even retreating to the other room while spouting off their own litany of accusations and frustrations. You find yourself running after, banging on the door demanding to be listened to. You feel even more angry and frustrated, then embarrassment and shame set in – you walk away, crying and hurt, becoming a person that you don’t even recognize. 

So much has changed

It doesn’t help that you are feeling unheard, misunderstood, and that your side doesn’t matter. How can all this be just me, my fault? I’m told I need to get out more, quit trying to control everything, just live, let go, be free. That you’re not the same person anymore. I’m not, you think. We’re not the same people we were when we first meet. We have careers, commitments, somehow, we have let those things let us get drifted apart.

Discover the Benefits: Marriage Counseling in San Diego

You want things to be good again, like it used to be, even when things were tough. You know it can be better. Have been better. You both have been through tougher times even. You begin thinking about the “cheap dinners” the skimping and saving for years to buy a house or other big purchase. How you made it through those tough times. Why can’t we do that now? What are we missing now that we had then you question. 

You are ready to feel amazing in your relationship again

However, you don’t want things to continue going the way they have. You want to get back to the couple that everybody believes you to be, the couple you want to be. Maybe marriage counseling will help, maybe it won’t, who knows you have heard mixed things about it. Guess I don’t have anything to lose, you begin to wonder if it will make a difference in your marriage relationship. 

Marriage Counseling in San Diego can help!

I am Tammy your marriage therapist in San Diego, here to help you overcome the obstacles standing in the way of the love and happiness you both deserve. In counseling, you'll have the opportunity to unpack the underlying issues, learn effective communication strategies, and explore ways to rebuild trust and connection. It won't be easy, and there may be moments of discomfort and vulnerability, but know that you're not alone in this journey. Marriage counseling can be a valuable tool in navigating the rough patches and rediscovering the strength and love that brought you together in the first place. It’s a testament to your commitment to each other and your shared desire for a happier, healthier relationship.

Schedule your free marriage counseling consult today

Ready to revitalize your relationship and create lasting change? Seize this opportunity to rediscover the essence of who you are as individuals and as partners, rekindling the flame of your love and reigniting the spark that once illuminated our path. Schedule a couples counseling session in San Diego and take the first step towards a happier and more fulfilling partnership. Call me today to schedule your marriage counseling session in San Diego. I also offer free 15 min phone consultation to learn more.